The bitter dispute between Carl Pavano and his ex-wife has taken a vile twist after she reportedly accused the former Yankees star of urinating in her shampoo bottles and ‘intentionally soiling the bed’ with other women.
The World Series winner still shares a home with his ex-wife, Alissa, in Connecticut. But the couple is is locked in a feud over a prenup agreement with ‘tens of millions of dollars’ reportedly at stake.
Alissa, now a social media influencer with nearly 20,000 Instagram followers, wants the prenup thrown out. She alleged Carl coerced her into signing it by threatening to abandon her.
Reports last week claimed police have been called to the home nine times since 2024 amid the toxic dispute and now more shocking allegations have emerged.
According to court documents obtained CT Insider, Alissa claims that her ex-husband peed in shampoo bottles in her private bathroom and ‘intentionally soiled the bed in which Plaintiff sleeps during her parenting time by having his female sex partners occupy the bed.’Â
It is also reported that she alleged in the documents that he ‘removed all clean linens from the house so that Plaintiff is unable to have a hygienically clean and safe bed during her parenting time.’
The bitter dispute between ex-Yankees star Carl Pavano and his ex-wife has taken a vile twistÂ
They are in the midst of a dispute over a prenup agreement worth ‘tens of millions of dollars’
Within 20 minutes of the former pitcher being served divorce papers back in 2024, Alissa reportedly alleges, he sent a group text to her and their children. It ‘showed multiple firearms laid out on the kitchen table’ and was captioned: ‘Hold the fort.’
The couple, whose children are 17, 16 and 11, moved from Florida to Connecticut in 2018 and they still share custody of the children at their lavish 9,000-square-foot home.Â
The prenup was initially ruled valid by State Superior Court Judge Thomas O’Neill in January 2025 but he did grant Alissa a $300,000 one-off alimony payment. The judge also told Carl to buy her a new home worth up to $1million.
Court documents allege that Carl ‘demanded’ Alissa sign the prenup, while she has also accused him of showing ‘intense’ and ‘controlling’ behavior towards her during their relationship.
Alissa, a lifestyle influencer, claims she was forced to walk on ‘eggshells’ around Carl, who allegedly insisted she abandon ‘her residence, potential employment, and all financial independence.’
Separately, she also filed an application for relief from physical abuse. In that, Alissa alleges she has ‘suffered significant abuse and coercive control by Carl that has recently escalated to a degree where I no longer feel safe in the marital residence.’Â
Alissa has also sensationally claimed Carl ‘planted drugs in her belongings’, ‘hid a secret camera in her bedroom’ and ‘stole items of jewelry’ from her.
‘A prenuptial agreement is an acceptable way for individuals, prior to marriage, to condition how their financial interests and responsibilities will be determined after marriage,’ Alissa’s lawyers alleged in a brief.
‘It should not be an acceptable way for a monied spouse who has already started a family with his significant other to force her to give up her financial independence, and then to extract financial advantages in the premarital agreement under the threat of taking the minor children away from her and leaving her destitute.’Â
Carl played in MLB for 14 years but only made 26 starts for the Yankees in three seasons after a series of injury problems, despite signing a four-year contract worth $39.5m
In August 2006, while with the Yankees, he broke two ribs after he hit a truck with his Porsche in West Palm Beach. He only told the Yankees about the incident two weeks later.
He also played for the Montreal Expos, Florida Marlins, Cleveland Indians and Minnesota Twins. Pavano was part of the Marlins team that won a World Series in 2003, while he was also named an All-Star in 2003.
The Daily Mail has contacted attorneys for both Carl and Alissa Pavano for comment.Â
